Over a year ago, Kevin had a blood draw for symptoms related to his acid reflux condition. This blood draw showed that his white blood cell level was low and he recommended another check in a few months time. We did this for about 9 months, before he was finally referred to a hematologist since his levels weren’t rising. The hematologist ran his blood through a few tests and was able to rule out some conditions including Leukemia and rheumatoid arthritis. He found that Kevin had a slight deficiency in his copper levels, and told him to take copper for 3 months and return for another draw. At this time, the doctor seemed unconcerned. I specifically asked the doctor about the possibility of cancer, and he assured me that it didn’t look like it. We were so relieved!

We went about our summer as normal, with Kev travelling a lot for his work (boat captain) and me home, working part time. Not much time was spent thinking about his blood levels (not for me anyway—Kev may tell you differently), and another busy summer was coming to a close.

In early August, Kev hurt his back badly while jumping off a boat on to a dock. He was taken in for X-rays, which showed a slight fracture in his T10 vertebra. He was sent for an MRI and it revealed that he actually had an old fracture in T10 that had healed over, and had a new fracture in T7. Kev was in incredible pain for almost 4 weeks while we were trying to figure all of this out. He was so debilitated, that he couldn’t even pick up and carry our two young daughters.

Finally, the day was here where we would make our 3-month visit back to the hematologist for a consult regarding his anemia. Feeling optimistic that cancer was off the table, we packed up the whole family for the trip. Unfortunately, this visit was not what we were expecting. When the doctor found out about Kevin’s fractured spine, he was very concerned. He had performed an additional test when he had seen that Kev’s anemia had not improved with the copper, and this test had shown a monoclonal protein spike. These three factors: anemia, monoclonal spike, and vertebral fractures, were enough of a concern that he informed us there was a 90% chance that Kev had cancer.  We were so taken off guard, that we didn’t know what to ask for follow up questions. I did ask what he thought it was, and he said "some type of lymphoma or multiple myeloma."

As the following week unfolded, Kev had a bone marrow biopsy. He also had a procedure done at Javery Pain Institute called a vertebra-plasty (sp?), which helped relieve some of his incredible back pain.

On Friday, September 7^th, Kevin was diagnosed with multiple myeloma. It is in stage 3, due to the bone lesions/fractures. Blood cancers are staged differently than "solid" cancers (e.g. tumors), and the treatment is no different from stage 2 to stage 3. The treatment plan is for Kev to start chemo next week, and he will also have a stem cell transplant/bone marrow transplant in the near future. If you would like to research this disease, I highly recommend going straight to the International Myeloma Foundation: http://myeloma.org/Main.action.

I have named this blog, "Taking Christ’s Yoke" because I love what Jesus told us in Matthew 11:29, Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.

I know three things to be true:
1.  God is Love.This means that God doesn’t "punish" us. Everything God allows to happen, he allows because he knows that these trials will fulfill plans that he has—not just for Kev and our family—but for maybe for others as well. Although we don’t know what God’s plans are for this, we do know that we have to come to Him for guidance, nurturing, love, and mercy. After all, God IS love, and has only goodness in mind when allowing trials.
2.  God loves my children. I have had a particularly hard time with this one. Although I can recite it and say, "God loves my children," this was different than saying, "I trust God with my children." And altogether different than saying, "I give up my children to God." Me, myself, and I know what’s best for my children and it’s not taking their father away!  And that’s that God!!. I heard His gentle voice telling me, "Kristin, I am their father first, and I know what I’m doing." Yes, God, I will trust and obey.
3.  God hears and answers our prayers. I know this one from personal experience. I cannot describe to anyone what it feels like to encounter the loving touch of God through His Holy Spirit, but I can tell you this—It is real, it is merciful, and it humbles you to your knees. Others who have had a real encounter with God know what I’m talking about. He hears my groans, He sees my tears, and He loves His sons and daughters.
　
Thank you all so much for your continued prayers, phone calls, text message, voicemails, conversations, hot meals, frozen meals, babysitting, etc! We love you all.